A story about overcoming fear as a writer.
My plane landed back home at 6 pm in Phoenix (which felt like 12 pm in Suriname). After 12 incredible days away, I was back with a heart full of gratitude and inspiration.
This adventure began with a simple email from a friend inviting me to speak at the Social Media Conference Suriname:
“Will you come speak about copywriting and content marketing?”
Without hesitation, I replied, “Yes!”
What my friend didn’t know was that I had been dreaming of visiting Suriname and speaking at this very conference since meeting him in 2018 at a social media event in San Diego. And yet, even as I said yes—I knew I needed to overcome my fear as a writer and speaker. This would be the biggest audience I had spoken to—150 people or more were expected at my session.
To my delight, the conference exceeded all expectations. The attendees brought unmatched energy, and the entire event was first-class, featuring live music, spoken word performances, insightful panel discussions, and expert speakers sharing their top strategies.
Throught a series of strategies (another topic I may write about), I was able to stay in a zone of calm, creative and confident so that I actually had fun when I stepped on stage and enjoyed every moment!
My Biggest Takeaway:
Say YES—even when it means overcoming fear as a writer or you are nervous about an opportunity!
It’s natural to feel unsure or wonder if you’re ready. Fear and doubt will always whisper reasons to say no. I certainly had my share of excuses:
- The invitation came only three weeks before the event.
- We were in the middle of selling our house and moving.
- I didn’t have a presentation ready.
- I felt mom guilt about being away for so long.
But instead of letting these obstacles hold me back, I asked myself the one question that changes everything:
How can I make this work?
Once I shifted my focus, the pieces fell into place. Just three weeks later, I was boarding a plane to Miami, on my way to Guyana, and finally to Paramaribo, Suriname.

What’s Your Next YES?
What opportunity are you going to say YES to this week? Even if it feels a little scary, take that leap of faith. It might just transform your writing journey—and your life. Every mountain is scaled by taking a series of small steps.
I’d love to hear your story. Comment below and tell me about a YES moment in your life.
Your courage and creativity inspire me!
Keep writing boldly,
Deanne